Misunderstanding

Some people take what's meant for their good and growth so wrong. Question: If you're not willing to be put in check how can you know when to check yourself and others? When certain things need to be addressed its best they're addressed by whoever is in charge. If the person in charge addresses the issue to the group as a whole and you take it personal then you're the issue. Point. Blank. Don't misunderstand the intentions behind things or think you're so important to someone that they'd go out of their way to embarress you. You're not more important than making sure the group as a whole understands how things work.